The “Father of the Bride” star turned a long and silent battle with her voice into a story of resilience, finding both unconventional tools and inner strength to help her speak again.
Kimberly Williams-Paisley’s battle with a mysterious health condition left her unable to speak for nearly two years, a challenge that forced her to step away from acting and reconsider her relationship with her voice. She opened up about her health issue in a recent interview with People.
Now recovering, the actress uses an unconventional tool to build her confidence—a life-sized hollow plastic swan, which she described as her “support animal.” She demonstrated its purpose by tilting it to her ear, explaining how speaking into the swan amplifies her voice. “It helps me hear my voice,” she said, finding reassurance in the unique object after a long period of silence.
This quirky moment contrasts sharply with the struggle she endured for nearly two years, during which her voice inexplicably vanished. “I felt trapped in my own body,” the 53-year-old shared.The ordeal began unexpectedly in November 2022 during the annual Dance Party to End ALZ fundraiser, which she co-hosts with her sister, actress Ashley Williams. The event, held in honor of their late mother, who passed away from dementia in 2016, is deeply personal to the sisters.
“I put the mic to my mouth, and nothing came out,” she recalled. “It was terrifying.” Initially, she believed she had strained her voice and thought rest and tea would resolve the issue. But as days turned into weeks, her voice remained faint and unsteady, and her concerns deepened.Desperate to regain her voice, the “According to Jim” alum turned to various remedies. She worked with a vocal coach and sought alternative therapies such as acupuncture and massage. But none of these efforts brought significant improvement.
“I went to self-blame,” she said, questioning whether she had neglected her vocal training or breathing techniques. As months passed without progress, her frustration grew. By January 2023, she found herself facing emotional and professional challenges.
At the premiere of her Netflix film “Dog Gone,” the noise on the red carpet made it impossible for her to participate in interviews. “I sounded weak, and it’s not how I felt,” she expressed. Overwhelmed by the experience, she retreated to a bathroom in tears, supported by friends who held her hand.Kimberly’s struggles began to impact not only her career but also her emotional health. She described experiencing fatigue, days of low motivation, and anxious thoughts that disrupted her sleep. “I wouldn’t say I had clinical depression, but I was sad,” she admitted.
Despite her efforts to carry on, she began withdrawing from social events and declining acting opportunities. “I love dinner parties and being around people, but I didn’t want to go out,” she said, reflecting on how her inability to communicate made her feel disconnected.
At home, the loss was equally challenging. She struggled to engage fully with her husband, country music star Brad Paisley, 52, and their two sons, Huck, 17, and Jasper, 15. “I couldn’t be a part of the conversation,” she explained.
Determined to find answers, she sought help at the Vanderbilt Voice Center in Nashville, a renowned facility known for treating music legends like Johnny Cash and Wynonna Judd. Doctors initially struggled to diagnose her condition because of severe tension in her neck muscles, which obscured their view of her vocal cords.
Eventually, she was diagnosed with muscle tension dysphonia, a condition in which neck muscles overcompensate to help the vocal cords function. “The muscles in my neck were tensing up to help my vocal cords hit each other,” she recounted.
Treatment focused on relieving the tension and improving her overall alignment. Specialists at Vanderbilt designed a regimen that included physical therapy, nighttime use of a custom mouthpiece, and body realignment techniques.Over the course of a year, she tried various interventions, ranging from antidepressants and dietary adjustments to unconventional methods such as hypnosis and consultations with psychics and astrologers. “I tried everything,” she said. Yet, despite her dedication, her voice failed to return.
Her silence brought moments of deep self-reflection. Fearing her voice might never recover, she grappled with questions about her identity and career. “There were days when I grieved and sobbed. I wondered, ‘Who am I without my voice?'” she divulged. During this time, she explored new creative outlets, completing two screenplays and considering alternative ways to express herself.
At the same time, she found comfort in her family’s support. Her sons often stepped in to help her communicate, earning her gratitude for their understanding and encouragement. “They were great cheerleaders for me. To see them embracing me made me feel less alone,” she said.
Brad also provided emotional and practical support, although his attempts to offer vocal tips occasionally backfired. “I stepped in it so much!” he joked. Still, his humor and positivity helped lighten the mood during difficult moments.
Another source of solace was the couple’s nonprofit organization, The Store, a free grocery store they co-founded in 2020 to combat food insecurity. Working with Brad to support the community gave Kimberly a sense of purpose. “It felt good to throw myself into service and helping others,” she said.
By early 2024, her relentless pursuit of treatment began to show results. Months of therapy had relaxed her neck muscles enough for doctors to get a clear view of her vocal cords. They discovered partial paralysis in her left vocal cord, likely caused by a viral infection.
The diagnosis was a turning point. “Once I got that diagnosis, my body could relax in a whole new way,” she said. “The shame and blame dissipated. It was largely a technical issue, not something I did wrong.”In August 2024, she underwent medialization laryngoplasty, a surgical procedure that repositioned her left vocal cord closer to the right. The three-hour surgery produced immediate results. “I couldn’t believe it was true,” she added, recalling the joy of hearing her voice restored after nearly two years.
Although her voice has significantly improved, it is not quite the same as before. She acknowledges limitations, such as being unable to yell and experiencing increased raspiness after extended use.However, she embraces these changes with optimism. “I think that’s sexy,” she said, noting that speaking softly can draw people in. “When you talk quieter, people lean in, which is not bad either.”
Despite her struggles, Kimberly remained active professionally. In 2023, she not only starred in the family adventure film “Dog Gone” but also lent her acting prowess to the historical drama “Jesus Revolution.”Reflecting on her journey, she expressed gratitude for the strength she discovered within herself. “I had to fight to be heard,” she noted, adding that the experience helped her develop a deeper understanding of her resilience. “No matter what my physical voice is, my voice underneath is stronger.”
After overcoming nearly two years of vocal struggles, Kimberly is cautiously embracing a new chapter in her life and career. Her resilience has not only restored her voice but also brought fresh opportunities, including her return to television as the new host of the Fox reality series “Farmer Wants a Wife.”