I only understood after he was gone. The man who gave up his bedroom, his retirement, and his health had quietly traded his comfort for my future. Every worn-out shoe, every skipped vacation, every “no” that stung like rejection was really a brick in a foundation I couldn’t see yet. While I lay awake fearing foster homes and empty cupboards, he was fighting a different fear: that I might grow up believing I wasn’t worth the sacrifice.
When the bank revealed the trust, it felt like he’d reached out from the other side to steady my shaking life one last time. Tuition paid. The house safe. A path cleared that he himself never got to walk. His letter didn’t erase the grief, but it rewrote the story I’d told myself about our struggle. It was never about deprivation. It was about devotion. Now, every class I take, every child I help, is my answer back to him: I was worth it. And so are they.