A woman sacrificed her life and changed her religion for her husband, only to find out that he had impregnated another woman in the past. Now she’s at a crossroads, deciding whether to leave her marriage or stay.A woman who sacrificed her whole life was left heartbroken when she found shocking messages on her husband’s phone. The woman shared on Reddit that she was an Indian who grew up in Canada. She moved to the United States for college and met her husband there.
She fell head over heels in love with this man, whom she said was white. She rebelled against her family and religion to be with him, to the point where she adopted his Christian religion.
Her marriage was perfect, with a husband who always reminded her how much he loved her. She also got along with his family, and they were expecting their first child together. But she suspected something was wrong when his behavior started changing.
How Did She Discover the Affair?
The couple was celebrating the husband’s grandmother’s birthday and pregnancy, but the wife felt her husband had become distant. Days after the party, things were still tense between them.He went on a trip for two weeks, and even when he returned, he still gave her the cold shoulder. The distance between them was starting to be unsettling, until one day, she recalled “I noticed that he fell asleep on the sofa while drinking. His phone was unlocked. I couldn’t help myself and snooped through his phone.”
She found an app called “kik” where she discovered a conversation dating back to 2019. Her husband had been conversing with another woman. As she read further, she discovered that her husband was in love with this woman. He told her about the pregnancy and pleaded for them to start their relationship once his unborn child was older.The husband told the woman that he could not leave his pregnant wife, and convinced her that love was patient. He even went as far as saying she would make a wonderful “bonus mother.”
But most shocking of all was finding out that her husband had impregnated the woman too, but they both agreed the time was not right, and the woman decided to get an abortion.
All the information was too much for the wife to handle. She decided to call up one of her co-workers and spent the night there to process everything. “I just feel like I made a huge mistake marrying this man and going against my family,” she confessed.Although the wife knew divorce was the right thing to do, she could not bear the thought of being a single mother and co-parenting with someone who was cheating on her. She thought this was an opportunity to get an abortion and reconnect with her family. She turned to Reddit to get the public’s opinion.
What Advice Did People Give Her?
The advice the woman got from Reddit commenters was mixed. Some people told her to hold on to the screenshots and not show them to her husband while she prepared for her exit strategy.
But people also thought abortion was the right thing to do so she could completely cut ties with the man who took everything from her. Others just told her to leave him and start a new life with her child.
Some people also shared their own personal experiences and sympathized with the woman. The wife was encouraged to stay strong as she finds a way out of her painful situation. Generally, internet users urged the woman not to spend the rest of her life with this man and give herself a chance to start over.